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Today, I got a chance to talk to Simon Ellison 35, about over coming one of mans worst fears: ‘Erectile Dysfunction‘ (ED).
EB: Hi Simon, Would you like to introduce yourself?
SE: Certainly. I’m Simon Ellison I’m 35 years old and have been impotent for the last 6 years.
EB: 35 seems fairly young?
SE: Yes, but I blame it on my job. I’m in the Navy- very high up. My job although very enjoyable- is very stressful. It takes a lot out of me. At the time I was married- I’m divorced now. Due to work and ED my marriage went down hill. Looking back- that could have been a good thing…(sighs) but it’s still a shame.
EB: How did your condition make you feel?
SE: ED made me feel very weak. I had no confidence- this feeling quickly spread to other parts of my life- my marriage and work began to suffer. Everyone began to notice the change in me.
EB: Weren’t you scared?
SE: Scared! Terrified more like! I couldn’t understand why. Why me? I felt very angry and worried at the same time. So confused…it felt like a part of me had died….
EB: Worried…
SE: I was worried about my wife……wondering when she would notice…..waiting for her to say something about the situation…wondering whether she’d go elsewhere
EB: What was the worst thing for you about the situation?
SE: I am a person who is highly energetic- I love to be involved in everything and anything is a challenge-I don’t give up till I succeed. Can you imagine what it was like finding out I was impotent? Finding that a part of me didn’t work was so hard-and it happened when I was fairly young-that made the situation worst-it affected everything- my job, my outlook-I became highly depressed-I felt I had no one to talk to. I became increasingly frustrated, both sexually and mentally. I knew I needed to take action-but it was so hard…..but it got a lot easier as time went on…..
EB: What was the first step you took?
SE: The first and probably the hardest step I took was admitting the problem to myself- after I had admitted this I could then go on to help myself.
EB: What about your partner?
SE: After I had admitted it to myself, I then went on to admit it to Mandy, my wife. This wasn’t actually that hard- by this time the situation had got so bad she had realized that something pretty serious must be up.
EB: How did she react?
SE: Mandy was fantastic. We are still great, close friends. We only divorced about 18 months ago. Mandy really supported me; she comforted me and totally took the lead. This was exactly what I needed-She told that it didn’t matter-I had done the hardest thing- admitting it her and myself and the rest would follow and fall into place.
EB: What happened next?
SE: From this point on Mandy took charge of me and looked after me. She told me that it didn’t matter and that we were a team…..that together we would fight and sort out the problem. Together we began researching into solutions…..We also went to see a counselor.
EB: Did that help you?
SE: Yes, it did. It enabled me to put the whole thing in proportion. I realized that I wasn’t the only person who was suffering there are many more out there-not as lucky as I was. It also pointed me in the right direction. The counselor gave us many pointers as to what step to take next.
EB: What was that next step?
SE: Mandy and I began researching on the Internet. I’d heard of Viagra -but didn’t know anything about it-it just seemed to be the butt of everyone’s jokes. Mandy then suggested that we went to the Doctors-just to ask about it- to find out whether I was suitable candidate for the drug.
EB: Was it hard to take this step?
SE: No not really….by this time I’d already been to see the counselor. My Doctor has been my Doctor for the last 10 years- I see him as more of a friend than a Doctor. He helped me considerably. He explained all about Viagra and the pros and cons. He then screened tests to see if I was suitable for taking the drug-which I was!
EB: Go on….
SE: Well I started taking Viagra and the Viagra Experience just simply took hold of me. It was fantastic- it was like a new lease of life. Confidence came flooding back. It was like a second Honeymoon. That first night I was so nervous- it was so special it was like consummating our marriage all over again. I was warned that it might not work-but I had to give it a try-I’ll give anything a try once. I began to feel much more positive about myself-the change in my life has been amazing.
EB: Could you tell me about these changes?
SE: Mandy and I got divorced about 18 months ago. We’re still great friends and I will always be so grateful to her. We just out grew each other. I have a serious girlfriend at the moment, we live together. She’s 4 months pregnant- can you believe that? One drug has given me so much-it’s changed my life so much.
EB: Finally Simon, what’s your advice for other men?
SE: My advice is simple-just tell someone and take the first step. The results are life changing- my life is evidence of that…..

by Peter James

After we get the okay for the first date, there is only one thing going through our mind’s. How long will it be until we have sex? Some women like to have sex on the first date, while others will make you wait until you think your nuts are about ready to explode. Sometimes it can depend on how smooth you are with other times it can depend on how horny she is. Yes, women get horny too. How long did it take you and your ex to make love? That probably can be some indicator about how long it will take to bag the next girl. If it took you years, then I would break out the hand lotion, or learn your moves a little better.

It is hard to believe, but some women like to wait until they are married to have sex. This might seem like forever, but it isn’t. I have known several women who have done this. Waiting until marriage protects their purity. In many religions, this is a must.

The plus side of this is, you will get to bang a virgin. Every man dreams of giving a woman her first sexual experience. I think most of us men have spent most of our lives dreaming of this.

There is a new trend to be a ‘born again virgin’. I’m not sure what this is exactly, it sounds to me like a woman who is unsure about her sexual orientation. If you have had sex, there is no way you can be a virgin. Of course, if you are wacky and forgot to take your meds, anything is possible.

Women are a picky bunch. In the wild this is done to make sure that she is getting the best genes possible. Some women can wait months to have sex. In their minds if they do this, they are testing your love. If she were to put out on the first date, obviously you would want to go out again.

If she makes you wait too long and you are unhappy with it, I would break up. She might think that you are breaking up just about sex, but you are. Women don’t understand it. She will think all you wanted was sex, but she doesn’t understand that you have a need for sex.

The problem is that if you wait too long, any sex is good. If you hadn’t ate for months, a stale piece of bread would taste good. If you continue to eat stale bread all the time, it won’t taste as good. The same way with sex. If you haven’t had any for awhile, even the worst sex is going to feel good. After awhile you will realize the sex isn’t good and you will stop enjoying it.

The best rule of thumb is waiting two months. This will give you the chance for both of you to know if you like each other. Usually at the end of two months you know if the relationship is going to last.
If she has sex with you on the third date, its too hard to call. If you went out and got drunk three times at a loud bar and came home and had sex… Chances are there won’t be much sex after the first time. If on the other hand, you had three great dates filled with conversation and learned a bit about each other, you might get a little more action if you are lucky.

If you have sex on the first date, I wouldn’t look for anymore sex afterwards. Usually this kind of sex is out of lust. Each of you are so horny that you can hardly take it. Feel lucky if you get a call asking you on a second date.

We all have had dates like this in the past. They give you a hand job or allow you to feel them up. No sex, just a little fun foreplay. Usually this type of sex doesn’t last. She is just horny but not horny enough to go all the way. This won’t end up in marriage. Not that you were actually planning on it though.

Waiting for a period of time is the best way to go. If you build up excitement, there will be a great release. If you want the relationship go beyond one bang, then you need to get to know each other a bit. You need to know if this is a girl that you won’t mind waking up next to after a night of great sex.

Take your time. There is no hurry. If you have sex with too many people, you risk getting diseases. Take it slow, enjoy her company and you will get lucky. You will even get a side order of happiness with your wet beaver.

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Erectile Dysfunction (ED) affects about 30 million men in the US. The causes are varied and range from psychological reasons to helath conditions. But as serious as it is, some men still compound the problem by not taking the proper steps to deal with it. The result is often a complete breakdown in their most intimate relationship.

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