Archive for the ‘Sex Tips & Advice’ Category

Penis Girth

Thursday, October 11th, 2007

The age-old question, “Does size matter?” has been debated for eons. Both men and women alike are interested to know what really gives. Men are obsessed with the size of their penis and many have found ways to make their member larger. That’s why the penis enlargement industry is booming offering everything — from cream, pills, patches, weights, traction devices, and even surgery. The media and the overly-hyped stories of ‘well-endowed’ men have undoubtedly contributed to the already convoluted subject of penis size.

Men with larger organs are regarded to be more manly and better in bed. Thus, “Bigger is better” has become a popular adage. Furthermore, this insight seems to emanate from male vanity rather than the pleasure that your penis can provide. A small penis is equated to diminished masculinity, virility, and at times, also associated to impotency.

But, in fact, most researches have revealed that the average penis size is not the 12″ advertised by porn stars. Besides, these porn stars are not representative of the average man. They may very well be more well-endowed than you (this is their luck) or have undergone some enlargement procedure. The average penis size is actually between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth.

But countless women have agreed that the length of the penis has not much to do with sexual pleasure; but width may indeed matter in the long run. It has to do with stimulating their G-spot which is supposed to be located about two inches inside the upper wall of the vagina.

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The nerves that are stimulated during sexual intercourse are located near the entrance of the vagina and the anus. Penis girth is significant here since a meatier penis can stretch out the vaginal or anal walls that stimulate the nerves. This creates friction and sensation that most women love during a sexual experience.

Anyway, preference is still based on the individual woman. Because of the points highlighted above, many women have a penchant for a larger penis. But remember, it’s not only a big penis women crave. They seek passion, intimacy and emotional connection. Remember to show her your love by giving her flowers, a sensual massage, or candles with rose petals. Assault her senses with romantic gestures and you’ll be well rewarded. If you discover what turns her on, and focus on her needs, you’ll be rewarded even more!

Experiment on different sexual positions and incorporate Sex Toys in your love-making. Identify her key erogenous zones (i.e., her clitoris) and come up with techniques to stimulate her — with your tongue, vibrator, fingers, etc.

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The Science Behind Pheromones

Monday, October 8th, 2007

Today, there are many pheromones products in the market, and most men and women probably wonder what these products, such as the Nexus Pheromones, are for.

The word pheromone originates from the Greek words “pherein” (to transfer) and “hormon” (to stimulate). Coined by experts Adolf Butenandt and Peter Karlson in 1959, this term describes the chemical signals among living organisms that elicit response from the physiology or behavior of other members. Pheromones are chemical substances generated by one living organism and are transmitted to other organisms that belong in one species. Pheromones are substances that usually ignite the sexual urge among animals or people.

But for animals, pheromones are commonly used for communication. There are different pheromone types, with each type belonging to two categories of usage: as territory markers or as attraction or aggression starters. The epideictic pheromones, territorial pheromones, and trail pheromones belong to the first category. The epideictic pheromones are usually seen in insects. Commonly, female insects leave substances around the vicinity where they clutch their eggs so that other insects will automatically find another place. This pheromone type is similar with the territorial pheromones that animals use to label the scope of their territories. For example, dogs use urine to mark their territories. Lastly, the trail pheromones are used by social insects like ants, which leave chemical elements on paths they tread on so they can go back to their nests correctly. Ants also use their pheromones to guide other members to the right path, usually toward a source of food.

The second category includes the aggregation pheromones, alarm pheromones, primer pheromones, and sex pheromones. The primer pheromones are the most uncommon among the four types while the aggregation pheromones are substances that attract both male and female organisms. The latter pheromones are unusual because the typical pheromones attract specific members of the community only; for instance, if you’re a man, you’ll normally attract women. Meanwhile, there are species that, when attacked, release a substance that triggers aggression in other members of the community of that species– a substance called alarm pheromone. But other than aggression, there are also pheromones that lure mates for breeding that are called sex pheromones. Generally, a male insect can sense or detect the pheromones created by a female insect even if he is 10 kilometers away from her.

Proven that these classifications of pheromones are natural tools used by animals for communication, scientists also believe that pheromones also work in human beings. The human vomeronasal organ (VNO), a tiny organ situated in the human’s nasal cavity, serves as the body’s receptor of such substances. Since the vomeronasal organ is linked to the vessels of the brain, it sends the signals that it receives from the pheromones to the human brain. Then, the brain dictates the response of the body, which becomes evident in the man’s behavior.

In connection to the statement above, studies show that human beings use the sense of smell to select their mates. In fact, Swedish experts have proven that, with the use of the latest brain imaging device, both homosexual males and heterosexual females react in a common manner when they are sexually aroused by male odors. Another study has found out that through the use of odor, pheromones have the ability to synchronize the menstrual cycles of different women. With pheromones, the female’s ovulation can either shorten or lengthen depending on the signal that the female receives. Scientists call this process McClintock effect.

To further prove that pheromones are natural parts of human beings or their everyday lives, scientists have documented their findings using medical journals including Nature, The Scientist, and Microscopy-UK and Micscape Magazine as well as reports such as Report from the Howard Hughes Medical Institute and Presentation to International Society for Human Ethology, Simon Fraser University. Due to the unbelievable functions of pheromones, even TV and print media have covered different scientific facts about these body substances. Dateline NBC, 20/20, ABC News, CNN, NY Times, Washington Post, and Time Magazine are examples of those media.

Consequently, various companies have produced pheromone products like Nexus Pheromones to help people find partners. These products are clinically proven formulations that attract males and females. Pheromone products are created specifically for men to allow them to communicate silently to women, using only their odors. Some males use these products by blending them with their aftershaves. The Nexus Pheromones, for example, can be mixed by men in their aftershaves so that women will be able to smell their scents when they have a chance to get close to women. With these pheromone products, men do not need to take muscle pills or waste their sweat in the gym anymore just to improve their likeability; all they need is a simple scent produced by pheromones products.

However, men must not rely on pheromones products alone to attract women. They should also consider the importance of hygiene and appearance. For instance, a man uses Nexus Pheromones but he does not shower everyday, does not brush his teeth, and dresses up like a filthy street beggar. Do you think this kind of look will attract women? Certainly not, because women prefer both good-smelling and good-looking men. Simply put, pheromones products can help men lure women, but the end result also depends on the man’s presentation of himself.

The aforementioned scientific discoveries and explanations may seem to be so simple that a lot of people already believe in the ‘mysterious’ works of pheromones to the body, specifically factors that influence the attraction between human beings. Indeed, with the use of vomeronasal organs and pheromones, people often find themselves attracted to someone they do not even know. Probably, this is the reason for that thing called “chemistry,” but whatever label people attach to this kind of attraction, one thing is for sure: the effect that pheromones bring is not mere speculation but a proven fact.

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Lovecentria™ and The Art of Lovemaking

Sunday, October 7th, 2007

Kama Sutra is a book written well over a Millenia ago in India for male citizens on how to please and how to be pleasured. As well as featuring acrobatic and sculptural positions, it also includes advice for massage, fellatio, cunnilingus, kissing, touching and penis/vaginal compatibility. Many people see it only as the source to find “wild” positions for sex.

Every man needs a tip once in a while, especially when it comes to things that are not that well-known. Take Kama Sutra for example. Everybody heard the name, but to the average man Kama Sutra is just ‘a name’. It has a raunchy connotation and a reputation for being some sort of ancient porn mag, but the details elude pretty much anybody who never had the time or the inclination to actually read the book. Nevertheless, it’s easier to pretend that one has the common vague idea about what’s in it than to really get hold of a copy and read it.

Lovecentria™ has taken the necessary steps to bringing the joys of ancient erotic arts of the Orient into the lives of modern people since the makers of the site believe that it’s better to be informed than to risk making a fool of oneself. Lovecentria™ features an everyman’s guide to both Kama Sutra and Tantric sex, a no-nonsense approach to an issue that has the common man repelled by the hints of mysticism and all that talk of chakras, being one with the universe or dancing naked around certain trees. Kama Sutra is a far simpler affair and one that can be learnt quickly.

They have a hefty database of instructional videos, articles and ebooks that can teach anybody what the ancient people of India meant when they spoke about Kama (love) and what they were doing in bed that has made this book so famous through the ages. The Treatise on Love, which is the correct translation of Kama Sutra, is a comprehensive book on how to get to know women, how to woo them and, finally, how to perform in bed in order to please both yourself and the lady in question. All you need to know about Kama Sutra is a couple of clicks away on the Lovecentria™ website.

The best reason to learn about the Kama Sutra is to perfect your style. Every man wants to amaze women with his skills and techniques and this is where this ancient book can make a huge difference in your love life. New positions, new attitudes and new ways of courting women can be at your fingertips in a short while. With more information comes more confidence and before you know it a new man will emerge from within you, a man who knows what to say and what to do to succeed every time. I think every man would like that.

Tantric Sex

Tantric sex is another great way of blowing the minds of women; especially those who don’t think much of you at the start. Women always melt before passion and tenderness and Tantric sex is all about increasing the feeling instead of just pushing harder or faster. It’s about learning to open your heart a bit and experience a fantastic sense of unity with your lover. And that’s exactly what’s going to make her beg for more every time because good Tantric sex and a thorough knowledge of Kama Sutra are remarkably scarce in men.

Interested in experimenting with Kama Sutra and tantric sex? Lovecentria™ has all the content and advice that you need. Articles, videos and instructional eBooks are all available. For more information please visit Lovecentria™.

Lovecentria and Kama Sutra

Wednesday, October 3rd, 2007

Every man needs a tip once in a while, especially when it comes to things that are not that well-known. Take Kama Sutra for example. Everybody’s heard the name, but to the average man Kama Sutra it’s just that: a name. It has a raunchy connotation and a reputation for being some sort of ancient porn mag, but the details elude pretty much anybody who never had the time or the inclination to actually read the book. Nevertheless, it’s easier to pretend that one has the common vague idea about what’s in it than to really get hold of a copy and read it.

But, since we believe that it’s better to be informed than to risk making a fool of oneself, Lovecentria™ has taken the necessary steps to bringing the joys of ancient erotic arts of the Orient into the lives of modern people. Lovecentria™ features an everyman’s guide to both Kama Sutra and Tantric sex, a no-nonsense approach to an issue that has the common man repelled by the hints of mysticism and all that talk of chakras, being one with the universe or dancing naked around certain trees. Kama Sutra is a far simpler affair and one that can be learnt quickly.

Lovecentria™ has a hefty database of instructional videos, articles and ebooks that can teach anybody what the ancient people of India meant when they spoke about Kama (love) and what they were doing in bed that has made this book so famous through the ages. The Treatise on Love, which is the correct translation of Kama Sutra, is a comprehensive book on how to get to know women, how to woo them and, finally, how to perform in bed in order to please both yourself and the lady in question. All you need to know about Kama Sutra is a couple of clicks away on the Lovecentria™ website.

The best reason to learn about the Kama Sutra is to perfect your style. Every man wants to amaze women with his skills and techniques and this is where this ancient book can make a huge difference in your love life. New positions, new attitudes and new ways of courting women can be at your fingertips in a short while. With more information comes more confidence and before you know it a new man will emerge from within you, a man who knows what to say and what to do to succeed every time. I think every man would like that.

Tantric sex is another great way of blowing the minds of women; especially those who don’t think much of you at the start. Women always melt before passion and tenderness and Tantric sex is all about increasing the feeling instead of just pushing harder or faster. It’s about learning to open your heart a bit and experience a fantastic sense of unity with your lover. And that’s exactly what’s going to make her beg for more every time. Because good Tantric sex and a thorough knowledge of Kama Sutra are remarkably scarce in men.

If you are interested in experimenting with Kama Sutra and tantric sex then Lovecentria™ has all the content and advice that you need. Articles, videos and instructional eBooks are all available here.

Interview with a woman about why she likes a big penis

Tuesday, October 2nd, 2007

Those exposed to western culture have been conditioned to believe the mindset ‘the bigger the better’ about all sorts of things, from cars to houses to portions in restaurants. This way of thinking extends to penile size as well. Big men are most likely to have slightly bigger penises, although, contrary to popular belief, there is no correlation between the size of a man’s nose or feet and the size of his organ.

Does it really make any difference when you’re having sex? For Samantha X, it matters - a lot. “Sure it matters - I’ve had some massive members in my time, and I really enjoyed them! I find that the bigger the penis, the greater the feeling.” In fact, a woman who doesn’t prefer a bigger-than-average penis is more of an exception rather than the norm. While men’s penis come in various colors, shapes and sizes, a study conducted by the Alfred C. Kinsey Institute for Sex Research has shown that the average penis size is anywhere from 5-7 inches. Size does not matter - to a certain extent - in order bestow a physical sensation upon a woman. “I once slept with a guy who had a stub for a cock and I couldn’t feel anything. I ended up going into the bathroom and satisfying myself - a situation I don’t care to repeat.” says on of the women interviewed.

The heart of the matter is that most women don’t like very small penises, whatever is done with them. A small, slender penis is not very rewarding in itself and many women complain that they ‘can’t feel anything,’ especially if their vagina has previously been stretched by having children. That does not necessarily mean that length-challenged men cannot be good lovers, but that penis size alone probably is not going to do it.

Research has confirmed that what most women want is a bigger-than-average penis, but what is really important is width rather than length. They say the ideal penis is one which is thick enough to stretch the woman’s vaginal opening and which can be felt inside their body, each time they have sex. “I would rather sleep with a guy who has a thick member than someone with a thin, reedy schlong that hits my cervix every time he penetrates me.”

Similarly, most of the 200 women interviewed representing all ages (over 18), sizes, ethnicities, and sexual habits opted for girth (or the circumference) over length, as they claimed to enjoy the feeling of a thick penis rubbing against their vaginal walls rather than having an unusually long penis poking against their insides.

When it comes to racial preferences, Samantha had this to say: “I’ve noticed that African-Americans are really well-endowed as compared to other nationalities. They also seem to be much more confident in bed knowing that they have the right size package.” One’s ethnic group does produce significant anatomical differences among males. For instance, black men are indeed bigger than Caucasian men, but only by half an inch or so, on average, while Asian men are about half an inch smaller on average.

All these information just show that women are turned on and satisfied by a large, thick, and powerful penis, not to mention they are visually stimulating as well. Women such as Samantha know how to appreciate well-endowed men, or even those just think they are, since they are usually much more sexually confident about their sack skills.

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Health Benefits of the Male Orgasm

Saturday, September 22nd, 2007

We all know that sex is, sometimes, the best part of a relationship, but not many people realize that there are other benefits to sex than the usual 30 seconds of pleasure. In fact, sex can be very accurately described as the glue that brings and holds together other aspects of a relationship between two people. And since orgasm is the goal of every hot sex session, it might be worthwhile to take a closer look at it. Because pleasure is more than just something that makes us feels good here and now.

What is less known in orgasm is the fact that certain health benefits are attached to it. Although this may sound surprising, there is scientific evidence to back up such claims. Over the past 50 years, a number of studies have shown that orgasm is just as important for the overall health of men as any other function of their bodies.

Moreover, later studies showed that frequent sex and orgasms translate into lower death rates for both men and women and also lower risk of heart attacks. In other words, it’s in your best interest to have sex often. American Doctor Ted McIlvenna found that sexually active people draw far more joy from their lives than others. They also take fewer sick leaves, which should please every businessman. Gynecologist Dudley Chapman contended that orgasms help the body fight infections, a proposition supported by psychologists from the Wilkes University.

More recently, a study conducted in Melbourne, Australia, found that frequent ejaculation between the ages of 20 and 50 helps dramatically decrease the risk of prostate cancer in men. This study ties with other research and suggests that regular orgasm in males prevents painful urination in old age. According to these studies, frequent male ejaculation is crucial for avoiding many prostate-related problems. Although there is still a lot of work to be done before science can provide us with a definitive link between ejaculation and a lower risk of prostate cancer, it’s obvious that a normal sex life has a positive effect on the overall health.

It’s plain to see that humans were meant to have sex often and to enjoy it a lot. The body and the mind suffer without the frequent combination of exertion and release brought by sex and orgasms. This should not be taken as advice to have sex anywhere and with anybody. There are still dangers that you need to protect against. But neither should you avoid sex because there so many other things to be done.

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Is your love life as active as you want it to be?

Wednesday, September 12th, 2007

Or the better question is, is your love life as active as your partner would like for it to be? It’s a disturbing fact that thousands of men and women across the world experience reduced sexual satsifaction more often than they would like. If you are included in this bunch and lack the strong desire or lasting sexual intensity you used to have, than the products listed on erectionbooster.com can help. Don’t settle any longer for a sex life that is less than perfect! Erection Booster can help you obtain a fulfilling longer lasting sexual experience.

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Woman Fantasies

Saturday, September 8th, 2007

by Peter James

It shouldn’t be surprising that women have fantasies also. Sometimes, they are more sexual than ours our. In this article we will discuss the top ten fantasies that women have. You will want to print this one out for future reference. Here we go, please pay attention!

*Having sex with strangers: This might sound odd, but women fantasize about this as well. Having sex with a complete stranger takes away the pressure. People feel like they don’t have a standard they have to live with, since they won’t be coming back for seconds. People engage in this type of sex because they feel that they won’t be judged.The only thing they are after is getting their rocks off, so if it feels good, then there is no reason to judge.

*The more people the better: Group sex can be exciting for a woman. I don’t mean that they want you to call your buddies over for a gang bang. Women tend to like the idea of a bunch of nude people together having sex with their partners. Unless of course, they are into swinging.

* Are you my daddy? Some women like to be controlled or to control their partner. Sometimes they want to be spanked and told to yell out slogans or phrases. Sometimes they may want to spank you and have you suck on things.

* Having sex in public: This really turns some women on. The idea of someone else watching them in the heat of the moment in public can be a real turn on. Find a place that you can feel secure and bang the night away. She will love it.

* Domination: While I don’t understand this one, a lot of people like it. Some women want to be told how and when to do things. She might like it when you tell her to lick your testicles and suck on your penis, I have known women who really get off on this sort of thing. Try it out, she might like it.

* Some women like to be roughed up a bit. They want you to hit them and tell them that you will hurt them if you don’t have sex with them. I don’t understand it, to me it sounds too much like rape. But what the hey, if it gets her off, that is all that matters.

* Having sex with another woman: This shouldn’t be no big surprise. Women can be better at pleasing another woman. Most men like it, some don’t. If your woman likes to do this and it turns you own, enjoy it.
Lesbianism can be a beautiful thing. Have her invite friends over that will also allow you to participate. I have done this and it is great. After the first time you will be hooked. Hell, I can just sit and watch them go at it and I am in ecstasy.

* Being a hooker: It is the oldest profession in the world. Some people think it is dirty, some women find it to be a turn on. That is probably why there isn’t a shortage of whores in this world. People like receiving rewards for a job well done. If a woman fantasizes about being a hooker, chances are a big part of her fantasy is that the guy gives her a big tip for pleasuring him.

* A three way: This is common for both men and women. Two people can pleasure better than one. The most common fantasy is where a man is doing her from behind while another man licks her clitoris.

* Having two partners in bed, doubles the pleasure. Makes the evening more enjoyable. This goes for women as well as it does for men. If she wants you to do this, do it if you are comfortable. If the idea of another man banging your girlfriend is okay with you, do it until your hearts content. If on the other hand she is just a piece of ass you are banging for the fun of it, go for it. She might as well have some fun too.

* Being the man of the hour: This one might catch you a little off guard. This is one of the more popular fantasies women have. Most say that they want to use a strap on dildo and have sex with their male partner.

I don’t think it is as much about the sex as it is the power. The feeling of having a penis and using it. Feeling him squabble when she sticks the fake penis in his anus. It is about power. Some women want that power.

Being raped: With all the news of violence and rape in the news towards women, this one took me by surprise. I’m not sure how to react to it and I am not sure how to write about it.

Some women want to be slapped and beat and forced to have sex. Just like you would expect to see if you were watching a woman get raped. They want you to put your hand up their skirts and feel their panties. They want you to kiss them hard so their lipstick runs across their face.

I think this comes from wanting to be powerless. They want to feel that someone else is in control of them and their fate. Please don’t engage in this sort of thing unless you are 100% sure that she is a willing participant. You could end up actually raping someone and going to jail if you don’t.

These are some tips that you can use to spice up your sex life. If she isn’t willing to do these things, then don’t force her. Fantasies are about making sex more enjoyable, not making it a living hell. Listen to your partner and know your boundaries. This will make for better sex.

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A conversation about Erectile Dysfunction

Thursday, September 6th, 2007

Today, I got a chance to talk to Simon Ellison 35, about over coming one of mans worst fears: ‘Erectile Dysfunction‘ (ED).
EB: Hi Simon, Would you like to introduce yourself?
SE: Certainly. I’m Simon Ellison I’m 35 years old and have been impotent for the last 6 years.
EB: 35 seems fairly young?
SE: Yes, but I blame it on my job. I’m in the Navy- very high up. My job although very enjoyable- is very stressful. It takes a lot out of me. At the time I was married- I’m divorced now. Due to work and ED my marriage went down hill. Looking back- that could have been a good thing…(sighs) but it’s still a shame.
EB: How did your condition make you feel?
SE: ED made me feel very weak. I had no confidence- this feeling quickly spread to other parts of my life- my marriage and work began to suffer. Everyone began to notice the change in me.
EB: Weren’t you scared?
SE: Scared! Terrified more like! I couldn’t understand why. Why me? I felt very angry and worried at the same time. So confused…it felt like a part of me had died….
EB: Worried…
SE: I was worried about my wife……wondering when she would notice…..waiting for her to say something about the situation…wondering whether she’d go elsewhere
EB: What was the worst thing for you about the situation?
SE: I am a person who is highly energetic- I love to be involved in everything and anything is a challenge-I don’t give up till I succeed. Can you imagine what it was like finding out I was impotent? Finding that a part of me didn’t work was so hard-and it happened when I was fairly young-that made the situation worst-it affected everything- my job, my outlook-I became highly depressed-I felt I had no one to talk to. I became increasingly frustrated, both sexually and mentally. I knew I needed to take action-but it was so hard…..but it got a lot easier as time went on…..
EB: What was the first step you took?
SE: The first and probably the hardest step I took was admitting the problem to myself- after I had admitted this I could then go on to help myself.
EB: What about your partner?
SE: After I had admitted it to myself, I then went on to admit it to Mandy, my wife. This wasn’t actually that hard- by this time the situation had got so bad she had realized that something pretty serious must be up.
EB: How did she react?
SE: Mandy was fantastic. We are still great, close friends. We only divorced about 18 months ago. Mandy really supported me; she comforted me and totally took the lead. This was exactly what I needed-She told that it didn’t matter-I had done the hardest thing- admitting it her and myself and the rest would follow and fall into place.
EB: What happened next?
SE: From this point on Mandy took charge of me and looked after me. She told me that it didn’t matter and that we were a team…..that together we would fight and sort out the problem. Together we began researching into solutions…..We also went to see a counselor.
EB: Did that help you?
SE: Yes, it did. It enabled me to put the whole thing in proportion. I realized that I wasn’t the only person who was suffering there are many more out there-not as lucky as I was. It also pointed me in the right direction. The counselor gave us many pointers as to what step to take next.
EB: What was that next step?
SE: Mandy and I began researching on the Internet. I’d heard of Viagra -but didn’t know anything about it-it just seemed to be the butt of everyone’s jokes. Mandy then suggested that we went to the Doctors-just to ask about it- to find out whether I was suitable candidate for the drug.
EB: Was it hard to take this step?
SE: No not really….by this time I’d already been to see the counselor. My Doctor has been my Doctor for the last 10 years- I see him as more of a friend than a Doctor. He helped me considerably. He explained all about Viagra and the pros and cons. He then screened tests to see if I was suitable for taking the drug-which I was!
EB: Go on….
SE: Well I started taking Viagra and the Viagra Experience just simply took hold of me. It was fantastic- it was like a new lease of life. Confidence came flooding back. It was like a second Honeymoon. That first night I was so nervous- it was so special it was like consummating our marriage all over again. I was warned that it might not work-but I had to give it a try-I’ll give anything a try once. I began to feel much more positive about myself-the change in my life has been amazing.
EB: Could you tell me about these changes?
SE: Mandy and I got divorced about 18 months ago. We’re still great friends and I will always be so grateful to her. We just out grew each other. I have a serious girlfriend at the moment, we live together. She’s 4 months pregnant- can you believe that? One drug has given me so much-it’s changed my life so much.
EB: Finally Simon, what’s your advice for other men?
SE: My advice is simple-just tell someone and take the first step. The results are life changing- my life is evidence of that…..

How long?

Thursday, September 6th, 2007

by Peter James

After we get the okay for the first date, there is only one thing going through our mind’s. How long will it be until we have sex? Some women like to have sex on the first date, while others will make you wait until you think your nuts are about ready to explode. Sometimes it can depend on how smooth you are with other times it can depend on how horny she is. Yes, women get horny too. How long did it take you and your ex to make love? That probably can be some indicator about how long it will take to bag the next girl. If it took you years, then I would break out the hand lotion, or learn your moves a little better.

It is hard to believe, but some women like to wait until they are married to have sex. This might seem like forever, but it isn’t. I have known several women who have done this. Waiting until marriage protects their purity. In many religions, this is a must.

The plus side of this is, you will get to bang a virgin. Every man dreams of giving a woman her first sexual experience. I think most of us men have spent most of our lives dreaming of this.

There is a new trend to be a ‘born again virgin’. I’m not sure what this is exactly, it sounds to me like a woman who is unsure about her sexual orientation. If you have had sex, there is no way you can be a virgin. Of course, if you are wacky and forgot to take your meds, anything is possible.

Women are a picky bunch. In the wild this is done to make sure that she is getting the best genes possible. Some women can wait months to have sex. In their minds if they do this, they are testing your love. If she were to put out on the first date, obviously you would want to go out again.

If she makes you wait too long and you are unhappy with it, I would break up. She might think that you are breaking up just about sex, but you are. Women don’t understand it. She will think all you wanted was sex, but she doesn’t understand that you have a need for sex.

The problem is that if you wait too long, any sex is good. If you hadn’t ate for months, a stale piece of bread would taste good. If you continue to eat stale bread all the time, it won’t taste as good. The same way with sex. If you haven’t had any for awhile, even the worst sex is going to feel good. After awhile you will realize the sex isn’t good and you will stop enjoying it.

The best rule of thumb is waiting two months. This will give you the chance for both of you to know if you like each other. Usually at the end of two months you know if the relationship is going to last.
If she has sex with you on the third date, its too hard to call. If you went out and got drunk three times at a loud bar and came home and had sex… Chances are there won’t be much sex after the first time. If on the other hand, you had three great dates filled with conversation and learned a bit about each other, you might get a little more action if you are lucky.

If you have sex on the first date, I wouldn’t look for anymore sex afterwards. Usually this kind of sex is out of lust. Each of you are so horny that you can hardly take it. Feel lucky if you get a call asking you on a second date.

We all have had dates like this in the past. They give you a hand job or allow you to feel them up. No sex, just a little fun foreplay. Usually this type of sex doesn’t last. She is just horny but not horny enough to go all the way. This won’t end up in marriage. Not that you were actually planning on it though.

Waiting for a period of time is the best way to go. If you build up excitement, there will be a great release. If you want the relationship go beyond one bang, then you need to get to know each other a bit. You need to know if this is a girl that you won’t mind waking up next to after a night of great sex.

Take your time. There is no hurry. If you have sex with too many people, you risk getting diseases. Take it slow, enjoy her company and you will get lucky. You will even get a side order of happiness with your wet beaver.

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