Archive for the ‘Sex Tips & Advice’ Category

Bedroom Issues: Am I terrible in bed?

Tuesday, August 21st, 2007

Frankly, if you need to ask this question then you already have a big problem.:-) Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, is something you will have to find out for yourself. Only you know the answer to this question. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it - and even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.

And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.

There are many things that could go wrong, which are not necessarily under your control. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt.

Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small since going out with the guys is fun and hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.

Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. Surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy. And if you really have a problem, don’t despair. Every problem has a solution.

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Causes and solutions to premature ejaculation

Tuesday, June 5th, 2007

Premature Ejaculation, also known to health care experts as “ejaculatio praecox”, is probably the single most common sexual dysfunction in men. Statistics show that as much as 30 percent of men complain of premature ejaculation in most sexual encounters. Sex therapists define premature ejaculation as a lack of ejaculatory control, which interferes with sexual or emotional well being in one or both partners. While not particularly informative for the layperson, this definition shows that premature ejaculation has a strong negative impact on a man’s emotional well being, especially by making him less confident in himself.

Truth be told, most men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. After all, ejaculatory control is not something men are born with; they have to learn it through practice and repetition. But a consistent occurrence of premature ejaculation is not to be taken lightly, especially in view of its effect of the male confidence and emotional well being. Knowing that a new sex session is likely to result in further humiliation is a devastating feeling for men. This serves to reinforce their low confidence, which reinforces the premature ejaculation and so on in a circle of hopelessness and depression.

Premature ejaculation has both physical and psychological roots. Recent studies have shown that more than 90 percent of men suffering from premature ejaculation had inherited their dysfunction from parents or grandparents with long-term premature ejaculation records. Doctors associate this dysfunction with a faster than normal neurological response in the pelvic muscles and recommend various exercises designed to improve ejaculatory control. On the psychological side, premature ejaculation can be caused by depression, stress, unrealistic expectations, or the reinforced lack of confidence.

It’s perfectly clear that inexperience is one of the biggest causes of premature ejaculation, followed by a weak PC muscle and a faster than normal neurological response in the pelvic muscles. Well, inexperience can only be cured with more sex, which is something we heartily recommend to everybody, while the muscles located in the pelvic area can be trained as any other muscle in the body to stop acting on their own. The PC muscle stands for the pubococcygeus muscle. This muscle acts as floor to the entire pelvic area of the body, supporting from underneath the weight of organs. It also controls orgasm and prolonged exercising helps men achieve orgasm without ejaculating.

Still, premature ejaculation can be prevented or treated by working out the PC muscle and bringing it under your control. When you have full control of this muscle, premature ejaculation is no longer a problem for you. Penis exercises, like Kegels or those featured in the Penis Health database, focus on ejaculation control at beginner, intermediate and advanced levels for people who are willing to rid themselves of this unfortunate condition once and for all. The trick is to have confidence in yourself and in your strength to make premature ejaculation a thing of the past.

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Importance of Girth

Tuesday, June 5th, 2007

Men focus too much in adding extra inches in their penis that they take the girth of their penis for granted. They tend to use traction devices, exercises, pills, pumps, weights and surgery to improve themselves. It is a good thing that men are considering ways to provide solutions on their problems.

Nowadays, most men think that length is far more important than girth, without realizing that it takes both to make a woman happy. A good sized penis is a penis that has both adequate length and girth. You might be wondering why is girth important when you thought women like to feel the penis going deep inside. Yes, they do, but that’s not enough. A long and thin penis will simply go up until it bangs against the cervix without giving a lot of pleasure.

You should remember, the pleasure zone for women - consists of roughly two inches of tissue rich in nerve endings located at the entrance of the vagina – rubs the rubs against the penis when going in and out causing those delightful sensations women experience during sex. A thin penis is only going to stretch this area a bit. A thick penis, with a good girth, will stretch the area a lot and stimulate a bigger number of nerve endings that will give women more pleasure.

Clitoris is the focal point of pleasure for women. Unlike the male penis, which works both as a sexual organ and as a way out for urine, the clitoris has no other function than to make women happy. A thin penis is unlikely to brush against the clitoris and bring out moans of pleasure. Naturally, there are certain sexual positions that will make even a thin penis brush up against the clitoris, but this is not something that happens on a regular basis. A thick penis, however, may only need a slight adjustment of the penetration angle in order to reach the clitoris.

Length is important but it is only a part of what gives a good sexual experience. Girth is equally important in pleasure. Length does not work well without the girth. If you are lacking in either of these departments and would like to more information on how to increase your penis size, give the Penis Health System a try.

Keeping the Penis Clean

Tuesday, June 5th, 2007

It is important for you to keep and stay clean all the time. Nowadays, personal hygiene serves as the basis of decency in the society. With sex and romance, Intimate hygiene is extremely essential in the life of a person. Here’s what every man needs to know about keeping the penis clean:

1. Tip of the Penis - The foreskin covers the glans. If you do not wash correctly, a white substance gathers, called smegma can be found in your penis. Smegma is a combination of dead cells, skin oils and moisture, and bacteria often thrive in this dark, moist and closed space. So, pull the foreskin back as far as it would go and start washing this area with lukewarm water. Be careful to wash both the glans and inside the foreskin, the part that is not normally exposed.

Make sure you are super clean down there because a man who takes off his shorts revealing an unclean penis is a bigger turn-off to a woman. This can be a big gaffe. Another, you can’t expect oral sex to happen if you don’t take good care of yourself. :-)

Men who are circumcised have to be just as careful as the non-circumcised guys. The lack of a foreskin means that bacteria and dead cells do not accumulate there and glans is no longer protected from contact with dust, sweat and all sorts of substances and fabrics that would otherwise be kept away from the penis. Some doctors also think that circumcised penises are more exposed to bacteria causing infections of the urinary tract. That is why keeping yourself clean at all times is of paramount importance.

2. Base of the Penis - This is the area that you should focus where sweat and hair combine to produce a strong smell, just as in your armpit. The area needs frequent washing in order to keep sweat from gathering there since it’s covered by underwear for most of the day. Shaving or clipping down the hair is a very good idea particularly in summer. Washing is far easier without a lot of hair getting in the way. Between the glans and the base of the penis you might also want to give the shaft a thorough scrubbing for good measure.

3. The Testicles - Sagging between your legs, the testicles are even more prone to producing an unpleasant smell as sweat can accumulate in the folds of skin or in the space between the penis and the testicles. You should wash each of them carefully and make sure that the small patch of skin between the base of the testicles and the anus (the perineum) is also free of smell and clean.